“夫妻兵法”十三篇（节选）

大侠亮剑

东北网友孝文告诉我，他将于今年深秋结婚。我对他说：“我有十四年的婚龄，你该向我请教夫妻相处之道。”他还真的向我讨教。于是才有此文。今残存小半，录于此，以备忘。

大侠亮剑

（八）磨合

磨合=磨+合。


磨，就是磨掉自己和对方身上的一部分棱角，磨掉自己和对方身上容易伤害彼此的刺。


合，就是联合、融合、和合。


磨，是手段，是过程；合，是目的，是结果。


磨合的结果，实际上就是将一男一女两个泥人都打破，再和上一点水，重塑一个你，再重塑一个她。到那时，你中有她，她中有你；你和她都互相包容对方——不管是优点，还是缺点。

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