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走遍天涯

我同事说我阁阁是我管的太多的缘故，所以在学习上一点也不主动。在没有上论坛之前，我没意识自己错了。

现在孩子也和我要自由，妈妈让我自己学吧！妈妈让我自己安排自己吧！妈妈我都大了，我知道我应该好好学习，要不小时侯的梦想都不能实现了。妈妈你别教我了，你能教我到高中啊？你也有自己的人生，把自己打扮漂亮的，好好工作。多教朋友。

我觉得孩子说的有理，但是她学习效率特别低，方法也不得当。一个假期我本来安排的好好的，学多少经典，做几本练习册。做几个作文。看几本书。

她不紧不慢的学会看会电视。有时候为了安慰我，还告诉我学了不少了。一天给我留个条，自己上街了，说情人节看看街上有没有卖花的女孩，帮她们卖一会。看看她们的生活。让我别担心她，一会就回来学习。

她把房门紧锁，在里干啥也没人知道，还总让你相信她。四十天“看”了几页物理数学，还一个劲的让你赏识她，相信她。我是特别的不开心，快开学了，什么什么都没有学，没有做。人家别人家的孩子下学期的书都学完了。急死人啊！

阁阁，通过赏识教育，现在是特别懂事，我也能管住她，硬教她，不还是老路重走吗？有意义吗？
就这样学习赏识有啥用？

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天涯，看到女儿阁阁这么优秀，我都分不清是你把她引领出来了还是她把你引领出来了。不管是什么，真的感动。
    阁阁是棵顽强的小树，在压力下仍然顽强地伸展着自己的枝干，太不容易了，她的自我生存能力太强了，你该为女儿自豪！