求助：如何与孩子沟通？

huangweiyun

我有一个初中二年级的男孩，喜欢电脑，考上重点初中。自上初中后学习成绩一直不太好。处于中下水平。有事也不喜交流不爱讲话。对自己没自信，总说自己比别人苯。我不知怎样帮助他？

yazzie

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下面引用由huangweiyun发表的内容：

我有一个初中二年级的男孩，喜欢电脑，考上重点初中。自上初中后学习成绩一直不太好。处于中下水平。有事也不喜交流不爱讲话。对自己没自信，总说自己比别人苯。我不知怎样帮助他？

你可以采取书信方法与他交流，我觉得这个方法挺好的。慢慢地打开他的心锁。

王奕欣

xiaolunyun

他是不是说自己不是读书的料。我遇到过这样一个孩子，我抓住机会表扬鼓励他，效果很不错的。