[求助]这样的孩子令我无所适从

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我是一个15岁孩子的妈,我正在偿试赏识教育,也许是孩子太聪明,也许是我的不得法,我对孩子的爱.想让他快乐的意念已成了他的法码.他一天到晚变着法子向你要这要那,而且有些是无理的要求,比如:说好了一个月的零用钱,一天就花光了,然后就几块.十几块的要,我就酌情的给,并向他说明原则要遵守,但他就是一次一次的不守承诺,要不到就大发皮气,甚至动手抢,说我这样根本不是想让他快乐,存心令他烦,再这样会逼死他的;他还要骑么托车,他已摔过两次,皮外伤,车子也坏了,过了两个星期不痛了又要骑了,他还没有证呢,出了事还了得?
  这还不算,孩子今年已初三,他说根本就是占个位子拿个毕业证,想去上学就去,不想去就在家睡觉.醒了上网,这段时间我尽量顺着他,调整他的心态,安慰他等他心情好了就去,他每天都说明天去,可次日就是叫不起来,只好邦他请假(他醒的时候,我让他自己打电话请假),有时班主任也会打电话来了解情况,我也注意与班主任的沟通,让班主任留心他的点滴进步,及时进行鼓励,但是,始终唤不醒他上学的欲望.
    今天孩子还说了一番自暴自弃的话:反证我也不知道长大以后怎么办,我死了也无所为,死了还好,不会害别人,听了这番话,我的心好痛,也好害怕,怕他做出极端的事来,对这样的孩子,我该怎么办呢?
  请各位高明的过来人爸爸妈妈给我指点迷津.

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ЩАДхОт ·±нУЪ 2006-10-18 22:56
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